To The Girls In Shidduchim A Couple Of Tips For You:

1)Tell your parents max 3 minutes on 1st date, I’m not your son in law yet I’m a total stranger

2)If you have a driveway please leave it open we aren’t interested in circling for 15 min

3)Try not to agree with everything we say this is the 21st century girls are allowed 2 have their own opinion

4)If you can’t walk in heels don’t wear them!

5)Lighten up on the makeup…you can enhance your facial featuresdon’t hide them

6) Try to wear some color this is a date not a funeral

7) If we go out for food your allowed to eat it’s kinda weird when your just watching us eat (and it’s free take advantage )

8)If there’s a lull in conversation you’re allowed to help out it’s not just the guys job to carry the conversation

9)If we’re quiet in the car it’s because it’s hard 2 carry conversation and drive ( not because we’re not interested in you)

10)Yes, guys are good at everything. Just Kidding lol…

At the end of the day we aren’t against you…we’re trying 2 get married 2 so hatzlacha in everything in life and we should all find our zivug soon. Amen.

Sincerely,

The Guys In Shidduchim

To The Guys In Shidduchim A Couple Of Tips For You:

1) Don’t talk about your hashkafos on the first date. Its kinda creepy and TMI.

2)Three hours. That’s the max. You want to end off with me looking forward to another date, not dreading it.

3) When the girl is talking, LOOK HER IN THE FACE AND LISTEN TO WHAT SHES SAYING!

4) Don’t keep steering the conversation back to yourself. If she tells u a story, ask her a question about it instead of just using her story as an excuse to talk about yourself. Listen to HEAR, not just to reply.

5) DONT SING ALONG WITH THE MUSIC IN THE LOUNGE

6) Don’t get angry at the guys in the parking garage no matter how stupid they are.

7) Don’t keep looking at your phone when you’re driving, if you need gps, get a holder for your phone.

8) If the little beepy thing keeps going off in your car, you’re probably driving like a maniac. Slow the heck down. Dont show off at the wheel. We want to get home alive.

9) Don’t discuss which tv shows you watch on the 1st date. I barely know you.

10) it’s ok to be good at things, but you’re good at EVERYTHING? I find that hard to believe.

In short, try to have a good time while trying to give me one as well. Use common sense, and try to be polite and normal.

Sincerely,

The Girls In Shidduchim